Dania: Ut Amem Et Foveam Female,39,,Neverland I'm a bit shy. Especially if I don't know you. I hate guys who floods my inbox and the first things they ask are my e-mail address and those who give their e-mail asking me to add them instead. These people will never get my time of the day. My Brunei malay isn't very good. I grew up in my home speaking primarily English, secondarily what you call standard Malay, and occasionally Japanese.