вiвeн™♥: don't give up. make the obstacles as a enegizer to make you raise. Female,38,,still looking where i am belong to sometimes, i talk harsh. sorry, my bad. but, yea.. true. why should i hide my attitude? this is i am. i only can accept for those people who can accept me for who i am. not just for my appearance or anything would attract them to come close. i also have my dignity! respect other people first, then people wil RESPECT YOU. Chow.